The fish asked the frog. “How do you know that the lily pad is strong enough to hold you before you leap?” The frog replied, “I don’t. I trust my ability to swim. So if it sinks, I swim.” And much like the frog I move by instinct. By alignment. By feeling. I don’t always wait for guarantees before I leap. And sometimes the lily pads sink. I’ve had lily pads dissolve beneath me before. I’ve felt the drop. The shock. The scramble into survival mode. For a long time, I thought t

On my way to the Beauty Boost Galentine’s event, I could already feel it. That quiet, reflective energy that always shows up before a shift. It’s the end of the astrological year (the year of the snake) the season of shedding. This is a time of releasing what no longer fits the woman you’re becoming. And I think my spirit knew that before my mind caught up. At the event, I had an oil ritual reading by Radiance Astrology. From the moment I walked up to her, she was soo spot on

There’s a feeling that comes up for a lot of people around Christmas sometimes it’s guilt, and sometimes it’s real panic. I know that panic well. I’ve spent much of my life in scarcity and survival mode. For years, Christmas meant stress and uncertainty, and more often than not, gifts only happened because someone helped me. That kind of experience and pain doesn’t disappear just because circumstances change. This year is different. Not perfect, not unlimited but different. I